Spring Formal

This is only the second dance I have gone to at this school. I had a blast though. I got to go with my roommate and met up with my date later at the dance. It was so much fun to go dress up and dance the night away. I had a good time with my date from Korea. It is hard to pronounce his name, so everyone just calls him Asian or Jason. After the dance we went out to eat at Denny's and it was a blast to just hang out with friends and have a good time. I got home way late, but it was so worth it. After dinner we raced Daniel back to the dorms and we won even though we had to completely detour two blocks the wrong direction. He was so sure he was going to win. This was such a great date even though it was basically spur of the moment, I had a fabulous time.

Speak English

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I don't know why this topic bothers me so much, but ya know you came to our country you should be able to speak English when you are here. Why should we have to do every thing you want, but when we go somewhere else we are out of luck when we can't speak you language. So I think we all need to just stand our ground and make them speak English.

Saturday Date

Saturday night I went out on a date with one of my friends, and that is all he is. There were a total of four of us who went on this date. But this was not a normal date by any means. It was me and my date plus two other guys, one of which who was married. It was a blast. It was the Utah Jazz vs the Denver Nuggets. The Jazz won 132 to 105. It was a very exciting game. After the game we went and walked around the Gateway for a little while before we went and got some signatures from the players as they were driving out of the Energy Solutions Arena. It was so exciting to be able to actually be that close to professional basketball players. We messed around taking pictures and that was exciting, but it was only a good date since the other two guys were there. But hey you can't win them all.

Men!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

…Slower is better…

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then no, you can't be friends! A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

…Don't settle…

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.

…Change comes from within…

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

…All men are NOT dogs…

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of
two WHOLE individuals...

Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. And my Personal favorite Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

~They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them,
a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. ~

Guys!

Guys count as animals right? Ok... I had a long speak about how much I hate this one guy right now, but I decided that is probably not the best place to say that stuff.... but I am basically just hurt right now with the choices some people have made and the things they have said. It just doesn't make sense to make someone think one thing and turn around and make another choice that is the complete opposite. I am just hurt inside and just want to go work out. I think tonight I might go for a run, but the last time I did that I regretted it afterwards... but who knows... maybe after a while I will get use to running and it wont hurt so bad any more. I just need something to let the hurt and aggression out right now. So now that I am done talking about complete nonsense. Which I am sure you all will be happy for.... so I will catch you on the flip side.